Laws

Paternity law in Qatar has many words, yes Qatar is ruled by Islamic and Sharia laws that state:

” The UAE wording on how nasab is to be established to the father adds, after
the conjugal bed, acknowledgement, and [shar`i] evidence, that this can be done
“through scientific methods where the conjugal bed is established.” The Explanatory Memorandum, quoted below, sets out the relationship between the envisaged use of methods such as DNA testing and the jurisprudential rules on “the existence of the conjugal bed.” In the arguments for the need to establish nasab (rather than biological paternity), references are made not only to the range of rights and responsibilities that arise to individuals through filiation but also to the wider societal context:

This article refers to establishing paternity through modern scientific
methods such as DNA testing, which are scientific means of establishing
the definite relationship between the child and his [/her] father; but in
order not to make a mockery of the issues involved in establishment of
paternity, by making it a matter simply of establishing this relationship
through a medical test, the article has linked its ruling to the existence of
the conjugal bed in accordance with article 90. This is to prevent what has
happened in a number of cases, with sperm being taken from a man and
implanted into a woman without there being any shar`i tie between them.

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Most of the paternity establishment is made by “married people sharing a conjugal bed” and if the evidence of marriage is not there then there’s no way a man can be the father. We all know that a lot of Muslims, married and not married are sharing everything, not just ‘conjugal beds’ which means there are a lot of children born out of wedlock, mainly in non-Muslim countries and one day those children may come back looking for their fathers. I wish there was a training for students who will study abroad, warning them of the consequences of premarital sex. I would never want another love struck female going thru life wondering about their ex.

In February of 2015 there was an article about “Qatar moves to standardize use of DNA evidence in court” The article states:

“DNA evidence may soon be admissible in Qatar’s criminal courts after the nation’s Cabinet approved a draft law specifying how the powerful investigative tool could be used.

According to a statement released by Qatar’s state news agency, the draft law would make “DNA tests and data kept in DNA database to be authoritative in evidence unless proven otherwise.”

DNA evidence can identify a suspect with near certainty when samples such as hair and bodily fluids are collected and analyzed properly.

Two lawyers who spoke to Doha News said they have not seen such evidence presented in Qatar’s courts, suggesting it is not commonly used here.

Up until now, it was left to a judge’s discretion as to whether to admit DNA evidence, former Qatari justice minister Najeeb al-Nuaimi told Doha News. However, if passed, the law would require judges to allow DNA evidence to be presented, he said.”

And: “He added that he doubted it would have a great effect on the local legal system as DNA evidence is “usually used in murder, rape and other cases to prove paternity, which aren’t many in Doha,” he said.

“Defendants usually admit to the crime in the cases I’ve handled, so there was no need for DNA evidence,” he added.”

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And recently: Article Link

I’ve also found the Family Law outline of Qatar and read this:

Section 4
Proof of Parentage by Testimony
Article 93

Article 93
Parentage may be proved by the testimony of two men or a man and two women.

Article 94

Article 94
Proof of birth and identity of the Child born may be established by the testimony of one Muslim,competent witness, male or female.

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Qatar is Beautiful

In spite of everything that’s going on I do love Qatar as a country. It’s a clean, modern and beautiful place to visit and I recommend it to any and everyone. The people are all friendly and are willing to help you out with anything you need.

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Blog is on lock Down

Due to the judge’s orders that I do not post anything about the current court proceedings I have put my blog on lock down until this is all over with.

Thanks for your understanding:)

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This is still my Website!

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When I started this website it was not only for myself but for other women out there facing the same issue of Qatari students leaving their kids behind with no second thought. This website is an outlet for me to express my frustration with my ex and try to prevent other women from suffering this same fate. Again, if they don’t marry you and only talk then walk away as they are only out there to play and then go back home and more than likely have an arranged marriage.

I never would imagine my site would be used as evidence in the family court against me! After 13 years of being told to make a DNA case by the father of my ex here we are, his son refuses! I can’t even write what I want any more because I know people in Qatar are stalking my site for evidence which is one of the reasons I don’t post that much.

I will address this with the Human Rights Organization in Qatar because I don’t feel what they are doing is right. All I wanted was my daughter to have her rights as a Qatari and I’ve got a defense lawyer who tries to shut me up, have me banned from the court and silenced completely for stating the truth. A cyber crimes case against me as if I posted something awful, the truth is the truth! It could have been easy but you want to make it hard because you are afraid of the truth coming out and being judged?

You have no other children! She is your blood! How could a father deny his only child?

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Qatar here we come

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Guess who’s moving to Qatar……….

If my daughter can’t have a father at least she can live in her country!

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It was all for her

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It was all for her, not for me or you.

Allah is watching and knows what is best for everyone and will judge everyone according to their actions and intentions.

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False testimony in Islam

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False words’ imply sin and false testimony

From the traditions quoted above it becomes clear that whenever the term ‘false words’ etc. occurs in Qur’an it implies ‘lying.’ Similar verses have been quoted in the chapter of music and songs. Hence some traditions state that ‘false words’ refers to music or songs. Actually the word ‘false’ stands for every evil, wrong and undesirable thing. Music, songs and lies head the list of these things.‘lying.’ Similar verses have been quoted in the chapter of music and songs. Hence some traditions state that ‘false words’ refers to music or songs. Actually the word ‘false’ stands for every evil, wrong and undesirable thing. Music, songs and lies head the list of these things.

Punishment of hell for the false witness
Hazrat Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) says,

“Whenever a person testifies falsely to usurp the property of a Muslim, Allah writes at that very moment a punishment of the blazing fire for this man.”1

Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (a.s.) says,

“The false witness may not even have moved from his place but that the punishment of fire will have already become incumbent for him.”2

The Holy Prophet (S) says:

“False testimony before an oppressive ruler is not yet complete when a place in the fire (Hell) is already decided (for the false witness).”3

The Messenger of Allah (S) has also said,

“One who testifies falsely against someone will be hung by his tongue with the hypocrites in the lowest portion of Hell.

And if one usurps the property of his believing brother, Allah does not give an increase in his sustenance till he repents for it.”4

Hazrat Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) narrates from the Holy Prophet (S) that he said,

“One who hides testimony before a just Islamic judge, or gives a false testimony to shed the blood of Muslims or intends to usurp a Muslim’s property by it, he shall be raised on the Day of the Judgment in such a condition that there will be darkness before his eyes and his face will be scratched. The people shall recognize him by these signs (that he had testified falsely).”5

The Holy Prophet (S) asked,

“Shall I inform you about the Greater of the Great sins?”

The companions said, “Why not, O! Prophet of Allah (S).” The Prophet (S) said,

“To make someone a partner of Allah, and disobedience to parents…” The Prophet (S) was resting his back against the wall. Now he sat up straight and continued in a more serious tone, “And beware! (Every) Falsehood!”

The narrators say that the Holy Prophet (S) has denounced falsehood so many times that we wished he had not done so.6

Since we have already explained that ‘falsehood’ includes every type of lying it also includes false testimony. The Holy Prophet (S) has also described ‘falsehood’ to be a Greater sin. False testimony is a manifold sin. Firstly because it is a lie which is a greater sin, secondly because it amounts to falsely accusing a Muslim which is also a greater sin and thirdly because it is instrumental in oppressing an innocent person which is still another greater sin. Also, through false testimony a person tries to acquire something which does not rightfully belong to him, thus making unlawful thing lawful, which is prohibited by Allah (S.w.T.). Lastly usurping somebody else’s property is also a greater sin. Thus we can say that many great sins constitute a single sin called, ‘false testimony’.

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I’m a cyber criminal

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For those who follow/view this website as an interest, welcome. For those who have ties to the ex and are constantly trying to look for more things to send to the CID, shame on you. When I arrived in Qatar I had no idea that a few hours later I would receive a call from the CID/Cyber crimes department of Qatar. It seems that a certain person who shall not be named (you know who you are) has filed a case against me with the CID. It’s funny that a case has come up now considering I’ve had this website since 2012, perhaps it’s part of your revenge?You told the court you never heard about my daughter yet you also told the judge about this website? So in reality you have known since 2012?

That person did not show up in court either but their lawyer submitted a ridiculous answer to my daughter’s claim.

Shame on you! I also realized that my phone number is with ooredoo, the same company you work for so that’s how you got my full name and knew when I arrived into Qatar. You obviously had your tech department ping my number to find out where I am, what a stalker!

It’s funny considering back in November you told me that you wouldn’t file a case and would let Allah handle it yet a case was made, bravo! I hope you sleep good at night considering all of the lies that have come out.

What are you running from? You’re the one who told me to file a case but you wouldn’t have anything to do with her, did you think I would always be afraid to do it?

You told me you knew all about my life in Kuwait, where I worked, what I do, etc. Enjoy stalking me from afar, I don’t mind, I live in peace knowing that I tried my best for our child. In the end you lose, not me.

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